I Owe My Home to Edith Schaeffer

I heard about Edith Schaeffer’s death as I was cleaning my house in preparation for an Easter brunch for 50 the next day. The irony made me smile—if it weren’t for Edith Schaeffer, I wondered if I would be hosting such an event. Her ideas about hospitality being more than setting a pretty table and serving delicious food have deeply encouraged me as a wife, mother, and church planter’s wife. Among other teachings, she encouraged Christians to remember that meals should always be more than serving or consuming food but provide the “feeling of painting a picture of writing a symphony.”

Edith Schaeffer died March 30 at the age of 98, leaving behind a Christian community that will continue to enjoy the effects her life and writings for generations to come. She loved family, artists, and Christian community and put hands and feet to these ideas. With her husband, Francis Schaeffer, she help found L’Abri Fellowship, a community that welcomed those seeking answers about God and Christianity. She also wrote numerous books and articles about Christian life and faith.

I first read her book The Hidden Art of Homemaking when I was a newlywed and my husband was in seminary. In this book she describes ways to make your surroundings more meaningful and beautiful, but it’s not just about keeping house. It’s about remembering that we are created in the image of an artistic, beautiful Creator. When we provide a Christ-centered atmosphere, we reflect the artistry, beauty, and order of God. The concepts she presents in that book literally changed my life as I made a home for my husband. At the time, we were living in a tiny, cement-block-walled campus apartment. It was tempting to wait to put her ideas into practice until I had a house of my own. But she wisely pointed out that it’s wrong for people to long for a daydream future while ignoring the importance of what they can do in the present.

Her encouragement to live artistically, aesthetically, and creatively aided my transition from the working world to being a stay-at-home mother. I left a rewarding career to be at home with an infant, and I probably would’ve ended up frustrated without Edith Schaeffer’s wise words. She showed me how to redirect my creativity and passions toward reflecting Christ. Simple ideas like plating food to look like a still-life painting, reading aloud to my family, and putting a few flowers in the center of the table have enriched my life and helped my children grow up in an atmosphere where they feel treasured and see that beauty is an important part of daily life. The Hidden Art became my textbook, and I have reread it yearly by myself and with other women since.

Through her writings, she reminded me to recognize my creative abilities and fulfill my talents in day-to-day activities. She pointed out that even if I didn’t ever become a famous author, I could still write letters to my grandmother or stories for my children. Her book encouraged me to continue to play the piano—I will never be a maestro but I can play at a level that entertains my family and friends. She reminded me that I can glorify God through expressing and developing the gifts he has given me.

Then, years later, her words encouraged me as my husband and I again transitioned and started a church in our home. The truths about hospitality and loving through serving again aided me as a church planter’s wife. She wrote that “the kitchen should be an interesting room in which communication takes place between child and mother and also among adults.” I’ve had more conversations than I can count in our kitchen and thank God that she pointed out the benefits of baking bread while having deep discussions and making this room a cozy place conducive for communication. Relationships, she often taught, cannot develop without good conversation.

Whether in Switzerland, the United States, or China—any place where Edith Schaeffer spent time—many were changed and enriched because of her faithful life. The words of the apostle Paul are a fitting tribute: “But thanks be to God, who in Christ always leads us in triumphal procession, and through us spreads the fragrance of the knowledge of him everywhere. For we are the aroma of Christ to God among those who are being saved and among those who are perishing” (2 Corinthians 2:14-15).

  • http://www.cindyfinley.com Cindy Finley

    Edith Schaeffer was and continues to be a mentor for me through her writings. I love her passion for beauty and the determined way she loved. As a young mom, I took hold of the message of The Hidden Art of Homemaking and applied many of her ideas to our family life. http://www.cindyfinley.com/2013/04/one-super-practical-great-idea-i.html. With Edith gone before, now we “await that which is real.”

  • http://thenface2face.wordpress.com Karen Butler

    “…through us spreads the fragrance of the knowledge of him everywhere.”

    With Edith, the fragrance must have been laced with cinnamon! The saying about her was, that she led as many to Christ through her cinnamon buns as Dr. Schaeffer did through his sermons. But only God knows.

    She mentored me through her books, as well. Many women are her spiritual children, and we do well now to rise up and call her ‘blessed.’

    I thought of her as I made my Easter dinner too, as I arranged the flowers I cut from our garden, and folded the cloth napkins, and lit the candles. I was weeping, for I wished I had told her of her impact on my life while she was alive. Edith originated the Martha Stewart philosophy of beautiful home-keeping, but she did it to the glory of God rather than out of fear of men. So it was replenishing to those who practiced these thoughtful acts of beauty, rather than exhausting to them.

    Thank you for paying such a good tribute, Lauren.

  • http://donotletthisuniverseforgetyou.blogspot.com Heather Carrillo

    What a godly lady! Thanks for writing this.

  • brian

    I found her books very encouraging, too. “What is a Family?” was one of the first books I read after becoming a christian. It opened my eyes to christian family life as a college student. Then – Hidden art; The Tapestry; Forever music. All opened my eyes to see what a christian home life could entail. My wife and I have discussed Edith’s ideas many many times to great benefit to our home. Brian

  • http://feastingonchrist.com Rondi Lauterbach

    I’m so glad you wrote this. I recently reread Hidden Art as I was traveling by train from France to Switzerland (perfect setting!) and remembered how she shaped my thinking about all types of creativity. As image bearers we are created to be creative, like Him. Edith Schaeffer’s books encouraged me to use my gifts boldly and joyfully in the private sphere.

    I was actually chagrined that her book Hidden Art was renamed Hidden Art of Homemaking, because its usefulness exceeded the boundaries of home, its examples extended beyond the sphere of homemaking and its audience included men and their creative impulses.

    That said, I thank God for her life and witness. And I’m blessed to picture her entering her final home.

    • http://www.cindyfinley.com Cindy Finley

      I didn’t know that “Hidden Art” was the original title. I agree with you that the principles extend beyond the sphere of homemaking, although though this was the sphere in which I first began to apply them. Thank you for sharing that!

  • http://myseasonalthoughts.blogspot.com/ Joy

    Thanks for sharing, Lauren! I am regularly reminded of many little nuggets of wisdom I read in Edith Schaeffer’s book many years ago. What a wonderful example she was!

  • Julie

    Thanks for the beautiful picture of your Easter brunch and of this post honoring one of my mentors. I remember reading Hidden Art when a young pastor’s wife with two little boys,shortly after it was first published in the ’70s. My husband came home to a candlelit dinner and asked, “What happened?” She shaped my life and ministry as a mother and pastor’s wife. I was able to tell her so in a letter and then face to face at a L’Abri conference. What a gift she has been to so many!

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